Marriage And The Family

Courtship

The beauty of love between a man and a woman is first the meeting and then the long period of the courtship relationship where flirting and complementing and buying flowers, chocolates and the many dinner appointments where you can talk aver the things that may have in common or at least your own personal tastes and likes as to find out whether you will be compatible on a long term marriage relationship.

The simple affection of sweet loving kisses with someone you are very fond of is a great way to tell whether you are mutually compatible without having sex at all until you are married. You will soon learn by talking and after a qualifying period of acceptance respect and care, share a little more intimately with a kiss after the night out at the theatre, restaurant, opera or just a picnic at the beach or in the park. Courtship is the best way to tell if you will ever be perfect together for the long term plan a relationship in heaven in the form of a Godly marriage. Some churches believe that god finds the right partner for you and that you should not even kiss until you are married.

I believe that God helps with the choice but it is up to the individual couples to talk and work out their salvation together for the suitability of a lifetime relationship in marriage. You can't be expected to find a partner by your parents arranged marriage choices for you but it is recommended to accept their pick or choice to talk about a permanent lasting relationship with your prescribed partner with. But in the end once God has done all the work of leading two suitable people together, it is up to the couple with the help of the church to help the marriage and the family work out. This two way communication between the couple is the only real way to make a marriage work and not the sex, but courtship is the loveliest time of life, for finding out what God is like in your lifetime partner.

Engagement

Engagement is the next step after a period of satisfying the selection criteria after the courtship process. The choice is made on a mutually compatible basis whereby the man asks the woman to marry him and the woman chooses to accept the entering in of a lifetime contract of marriage, but first there is the buying of an engagement right to put on the woman's left finger for the temporary trial period of satisfying each there's needs and requirements for the terminology of the marriage contract.

This is discussed and like courtship can be a time of loving behaviors where the closeness and the mutual bond of true love forms for the taking of vows in the wedding ceremony. This can take at least 12 months to two years in itself and jumping into marriage after only a 6 month engagement can be counterproductive for a lasting lifetime commitment. There is the visiting of eachother's homes and places, getting to know the parents of eachother's spouse.

There is still the inner dates and home cooked meals, theatre, opera concerts and church commitments, but at the end of the day when the engagement period is entered into and accepted as the final choice of mutual acceptance of the other person as your perfect lifetime companion and partner the marriage vows are exchanged in a big family, and church wedding the engagement process and time period is the formalisation and acceptance of this other person you have chosen as you lifetime compatible mate and the person you want to share and spend the rest of your life with. Each will have their faith but the two way communication and the love of God can help you overcome any obstacle or difficult y in accepting each others idiosyncrasies and differenced by the mutual compatibility of the interchanges of love when sex starts after the marriage and the honeymoon starts and sprouts.

The Wedding

Here comes the bride, here comes the bride, as the groom waits patiently at the front of the church and the bride's father escorts her down the aisle. With all the hard work of preparation and the invitations send out to the reception along comes the big day where two shall be united as one and the wedding vows and rings shall be exchanged for the future coming of a life together in extended bliss, now of course it is not all that easy to perform and you need the minister to perform the service and a congregation of witnesses to share in the mutual ceremony of the uniting of two souls to be bonded together to share their lives together in a time of sharing and caring and careful consideration of each other's needs and aspirations desires and necessities.

Beauty and ugly, happy and sad, for once and for all, for life until death do we part. For better, for worse, for love and for money, for good and for bad, these are all the contributing factors to a marriage is to provide a stable and safe haven for bringing children into the world and giving them all the love, care and attention that they need by two caring and loving parents, who aim to offer the best of everything to their children to instruct them in the right ways of life so that they may share in a living worthy to God the father almighty. So as the two kiss and the bride lifts the veil for the groom to be pronounces husband and wife, then to go and sign the registrar.

Book and a wedding eventuates of holy matrimony to be issues so that of is also a legal binding agreement between the two parties. As they walk back down the aisle as man and wife no longer two but one off to the reception for cutting the wedding cake and a feast that is a banquet worthy of King and Queen. To stay just long enough and they are off on the honeymoon to live happily ever after.

Husband And Wife

A relationship between two married people, a man and a woman is called being husband and wife. Once the minister or priest pronounces that a man and woman are married that means that they become husband and wife. The relationship between a husband and wife is a long, caring intimate consideration of each other's needs and aspirations desires and goals, health and well being as well as a compassionate understanding of how the other person in the relationship feels.

It is a beautiful and meaningful exchange of words and dialogue that lets the other person understand and comprehend what the other person wants to do and think, or to express themselves freely in a caring manner about what is on their mind and how they can go about doing things to manage the house and family job living conditions or just generally other related concerns in their world. Two happy people with one earning the income and the other raising the kids an looking after the cleaning and cooking buying groceries getting the kids to school until everything is done and they can sit down in their retirements of having an extended family where they can enjoy their grand kids and great grandkids for many years smiling down the road of life. The success of the relationship is hard work and planning and setting achievable goals for family is to be done by the parents who live together as husband and wife.

With holidays annually and a sense of accomplishment in providing for each other through their own duties for themselves, and the kids, is a full time dedicated commitments to the goal of the longevity of the family tree, then there is clear vision of how to go about the task and job of having a family relationship with the husband and wife at the head performing their own tasks and duties to make the whole life time situation work out. A husband and wife should choose wisely to begin with but with deep love it can all work out.

Bringing Up Children

Children are the future of our world and bringing up children the right way, with hope and security by instilling confidence in the good that they do and admiring aptitude in the initiative that they take to be responsible. It is still necessary to correct and discipline them when they are doing wrong or to encourage them when they show consideration for others and when the selfish childish need for care is sensed which is to be depicted and only punished when they don't listen, care or respond to authority. But basically children offer a bright hope for the future ad it is our job as parents to see that they have the best opportunities to advance in a secure and proper manner.

Teaching children is a great way to show them love and satisfy their need for belonging to offer nourishing food for the growing bodies, with protein limited sugar and fats so that they learn from an early age the advantage of a healthy diet and stable and second doctrine of physical exercise along with the intellectual stimulation of modern world enhancements that offer joy and pleasure for a happy and safe upbringing. Giving a child a safe and secure home, clean and tidy teaches them the right way to grow up.

By showing them love and care offers them hope and opportunity for the best possible and brightest future. Giving them a limited amount of freedom for mental and physical development is also a great way for their ensuring physical growth and ability for mental achievement. But above all is the need for community and relationship whereby they can mix with other children their own age and through kindergarten and schooling mature to higher levels of education and enter the workforce to repeat the same cycle of family relationships and repeats the whole thing of bringing up their own children again.

Raising A Family

Like bringing up children comes the communal environment and sociological aspect of raising a family where relationships from one to another both parents and siblings respond to the affectionate care of belonging and bonding in what can be considered one of the most beautiful things the world has to offer, which is the family unit where a household of all the happiness in the world is just reaching out in time for relationship responsibility with an angle of accountability and security for the safety of this united caring body of family members. Naturally it is the main concentration and focus for the responsible relationship of this family and unity for care.

It is also important for communal associated and understanding of generalised world view for communal living. Raising a family contributes a future and offers a hope of a brighter world with the natural replenishment factor of a lifetime of living ahead for each and every member of the family whereby the generations succeed generations and the beauty of old age and the extended family of bonding through uncles and aunties grandparents great grandparents and all the friends of association and the hope that the human race has by this one thing that is communal living and that is which is totally associated and assessed as the family until in the united believing society of fellow members of the communal body.

A good church affiliation and proper education is also advised and encouraged for the hope and security building up of confidence of good in the world, where the bad is left to suffer punishment. Overall though the united aspect of family life leads to the greater glory of living in communal life and the close knit bond of love, security, affiliation and bonding are the contributing factors to the family indeed.

Providing An Income

Providing an income to support a family is the hard and difficult part of the procedure of bringing up and raising a family. The fact of life is that the world is hard and yet necessary to maintain stability for twenty to thirty years until your family has passed the point of adolescence and become self sufficient for themselves. In the mean time you have the parental role of providing or earning an income to support your family's needs and essential requirement of food, clothing, shelter and a few toys or trivial things for learning and entertainment.

Let us be honest with ourselves and that the job of paying the bills and the happiness of the wife and children is the first concern and while maintaining a stable and safe environment you have the capacity to make a living and supportive income generation out of your job or career which is enough to enable the basic essentials and necessities of life to be paid and is allowed the luxuries of a few niceties for happiness, comfort and reward of the labor of love to support your family.

The fruit and the mean of this love affair is a happy and healthy family unit that grows in knowledge, wisdom and security, through the sustaining of right means and justifiable levels of satisfaction in producing what allows the sweetness of life and the substance and sustainability of communal relationships through sociological circles, with church reinforcement and leadership for guidance and the contributing credibility and interest generated out of the loving arrangement of the family unit. This income generation can be a many diverse and varied levels depending on the intellectual capacity of the main bread or income winner but the achievement is enhanced in the endurance test of patients and understanding for the long term outcome and benefit of the whole family unit.

Duty Of Care

In life we have demonstrate a duty of care not only to ourselves but our family, children and work colleagues. We also have to show care out of a duty the things that we own to make sure that they are looked after well maintained and pristinely preserved to the best of our ability. But this issue I am addressing here is mainly for people in that we have a responsibility as a person to show care to others and portray a caring disposition in the eyes of others.

A duty of care is a self explanatory description of how to treat other people, fairly and equally so that one gains respect and gives courtesy in the normal course of processions and taking the time to offer the time of day to others. Duty of care is also very important as a parent to see that their children grow up safely and securely with healthy appetite and a good understanding of their education in order to succeed in life and progress through adolescence and adulthood with the thorough teaching of caring attitude and a reason for their very being in order to have their own healthy respect for life. Caring is about concern for others, in trouble with problems with greed or pride or any other of many of the sins and pitfalls that bring us and in fact can demand if were too selfish and not careful enough.

Duty of care is love and understanding for people in need, it is putting the want before the requisite in order that by caring you are actually showing and demonstrating a right way to live and correct ability to how to survive the living in a world that usually does not care. But hope and the love are a grace and faith that we use to show and help through a duty of care, so that in caring for ourselves and for others we are actually making the world a better place.

The Joy Of Children Succeeding

Parents want to bring their children up to be best of their ability, by teaching them the right ways to live and the skills with things they need to achieve ad perform to the best of their own individual ability. The child needs confidence instilled into them so that they do not fewer life and can aim to attain all the glorious prizes of self achievement. Children naturally want to learn all they can and the only negatives and hindrances are laziness and disbelief in themselves.

The joy of children succeeding is a privilege that the parents get to know by the observation of rewards and incentives offered by teachers for their best efforts and central focus on achievement. Teaching children to succeed is not easy and they are many reasons why children often fail to achieve their best, too much television and not enough homework self indulgence in chocolate and lollies instead of nutritious food. Things laid on in the way of toys to play that take up the time from diligent study and the concentration needed to focus on success orientated fields of work and interactive achievement.

Then as they get older and learn that they can make money out of being successful they come unstuck again through alcohol cigarettes drugs and illicit sex. These unwanted successful idols and images are really negatives to society and communal well being and the flourishing of the family unit and all the trimmings that God has to offer through church. The joy of children succeeding is indeed a true reward, but the un-doings and the repentance from mistakes is an intimately negative they have to learn with too much self confidence. Success is a nice idea to be rich and famous but being truly successful is in teaching children or other people the right and wrong ways to do things and encourage all to walk the narrow road of life instead of the broad road to destruction.

Advancing The Family Of God

Community behavior and the loyalty to do the right thing is a manifestation of advancing the family of God. The kingdom of God is like a complete family unit, the family is the crux of the human society where the education health rules and right behavior becomes characteristic and fundamental in the basic understanding of human behavior of society as a family unit. The house of God where the husband is the head of the family house and the church or communal meeting place becomes and associated understand for all those who contribute and are part of the basic understanding of the family unit.

The wife and children who play no less a role in contributing to the total cohesion and representative understanding of the associated bond between the members to add to and enhance the family unit in order to contribute to the kingdom of God through the advancing of the family of man as a God centered focus on the contributions and adherents of community behavior and the interaction and future direction of the undertaking to advance the family of God as a communal group on it to complete and comply with rules and regulations for the maximization of parallels and the associations of the understanding of the rules of the kingdom of God and the necessary requirements to respond and to adopt and appreciate the worth of the family as a narrowly guided yet broadly comprehended deity of genealogy and the human instinct for survival and the self preservation of gods people buy their nationally language of the family unit in this case where by the relationship of understanding is left to God alone and the beauty of his mighty and divine will prospect and care for those who love him and obey his commandments and rules for living with the family house and the associated communal society of the understanding of position and present within gods kingdom and the family he calls his.

Church And School For Kids

Learning and understanding have been the basic fundamentals and requirements for children over the years, to develop and appreciate a deep respect for life and obtain the living skills that enable them to earn and income. Both churches and schools provide this kind of enabling for learning on life and they show that there is a better way to live than the basic survival levels of animals.

Animals live and die for food; people should live and die for God or at least the quality of life that churches and schools offer for education and learning understandings on the fundamental principles of life and the meaning of history and existence. Church with its Sunday schools and kids clubs is a great way for children to learn these principles with the mixing and interaction with other kids and the learning benefits and techniques by these association skills and communication generation of ability to speak. Remembering the information for higher marks and following teachers guiding principles in school is where life skills start to advance and appreciate as real means of work operation abilities in the community and the social network of the workforce. Creating interest and generating self worth for the new and routine understanding of logical procedures and behavioral techniques for interaction with family and friends and the development of community interaction for social networks, and circles.

Church does not dictate how to live but offers rational suggestions by Bible Stories on how a man lives and died for others that there might be abundant life for all. Schools teach the necessary curriculum of a broad range and subjects for comprehension and cross-sectional learning for life and work skills. If ever the two shall meet and intertwine we have reached the pivotal high understanding the broad and narrow road of life and learn to appreciate the benefits of the knowledge of information that is offered to children and is for the finer things in the quality of life.

The Family Relationship With God

Family has a key part in modern day society and the relationship with God as a heavenly father looking down on His children is and intricate part in the well being and the understand of the people for a healthy perspective and ideal view on how is the right way to do things as seen through Gods eyes and in what position does that place the family as an integral part of society and the church that God calls home for his instructions, leadership guidance and rules for living that are laws of the land and spiritual freedom of opinion for the comprehending of the best ideas for our lives.

The family offers parents the privilege of children while children need the dependency of the parents which ties the family unit together. God plays a pivotal role in that while the individual family maybe quite small, on the broader scale in the bigger picture the family of man as the human race needs the love and care of God by being in a right relationship with his will and desires. The singularities and similarities of individual cultures also influence the family relationship with God and while being non-racist and indiscriminate god looks down on all his families children as a blessing and with a blessing of live.

God does not want to see any of his children perish or waste away but by a controlling and powerful hand, shepherds cares and instructs his family. This blessing of servant hood and stewardship is a normal feature of his Goodness and love and while we each individually tend to go astray, the unity of the family and the fellowship of believers looks to god for strength and confidence to fight the battle of daily life, in that they can feel encourages to survive as close knit family units in a powerful world where to serve the right helps and makes the people who look to God, safe in their family unit of nurture.

Peace, Plenty And Perfection

Peace, plenty and perfection what a beautiful suggestion all work united in the common belief and purpose of doing good. Plenty of people want the world to be perfect and God created it in his glorious splendor for us to have, that we might enjoy the fruits of his labor to be happy, achieve success and to be at harmony and peace with each other, to the praise of the mighty and true name of God.

Perfection is an idealist Utopia of everything working for good in a state where nothing goes wrong, and everything falls into place in a right order and design. Building and structures are made perfect to last a long time, pictures paintings electrical appliances are all built to do the job and last. When something goes wrong there are plenty of other things to back up the temporary malfunction. But in an ideal work everything will last forever even though we know things are not really like that, though technology updates all the time and all we need to do is earn a bit more money to replace our broken or superseded out of date appliances with a new upgraded and more perfect one. Things are replaceable and even though we should look after our own possessions. People are not so easily replaces with the old dying for the new or younger coming generation.

The old have set the standards and lead the way the new show the fresh ideas and inspire the old, while the old teach the young how to grow old. Peace, plenty and perfection is about having enough of it all for everyone. It is about the relationship of logic and order and a demonstration of power from the divine intelligence of the creator. Don't take it for granted but do assume a healthy respect for the perfect world, where all people live in peace and those who work to enjoy it have plenty to give and receive and reciprocate the loving offer.

A Godly Marriage

A Godly marriage needs a godly perspective and commitments between a husband and a wife to pledge a life of love together for the duration of their natural lives. It is and should be based on sound teaching and instruction for right living, with the caring understanding of each other's needs and the satisfaction of the sharing and selfless live for the appreciation of each other's gifts and abilities to serve work and maintain personal assets and family towards a greater development of the nurture and attitude of understanding for experience gaining and memory communication of what each other has done and what the couple of two want to do together, what to eat where to go who to associate with, what to read, what to watch and where to work and who with. Each one of the partnership working to provide and look after the other, while maintaining the house and the other associated domestic duties. With genuine love and respect for the other partner, they can cherish and trust the truth in their lives and benefit from the mutual admiration of each other., a Godly marriage puts God's rules and standards first and follows the morality guide of righteous living. It offers the best of everything, if total acceptance of the law of obedience and loyalty are followed. It offers the joy and treasure of heaven and it allows and provides for all the desires of each other to be fulfilled in worthwhile enabling of accomplishments by gratifications of mutual requirements. It is not a blessing and a fulfillment of scripture it is a comprehensive completeness of all of Gods desired and natural laws of the universe, it is a physical requirements for reproduction of family and genealogy lines. It provides for happiness, beauty and perfection in life when the wife has the children and the man the money for expenditure and bills. With each other's duties performed to satisfy the other in God willing eyes and heart.